The Art of Desire: Keys To Christian Sexual Life for Females

The Genesis: In The Kuma Sutra it says that masturbation was done by homosexuals and transgender people, anal sex is inferior copulation (sodomy) and is a deviation from regular sex (lasciviousness) and oral sex is excess desire (lasciviousness). Masturbation, anal sex and oral sex also fall under the sin of uncleanness. Although homosexuals and transgender people engaged in masturbation, it also says that it was done by heterosexuals. It says that women did it for amusement if her partner didn’t bring her to orgasm and men did it if they couldn’t find a suitable partner. Even though heterosexuals also engaged in masturbation, it still doesn’t take away from the fact that it is lasciviousness (a desire that goes beyond what’s normal, which is sex between a man and woman, not one’s self and not just to fulfill a pleasure that can’t be fulfilled by your spouse. If you are not being pleased by your spouse, pray that God enables your spouse to be able to please you). In ancient Pompeii, masturbation was done while looking through a peephole, watching prostitutes have sex. This shows that masturbation goes beyond normal sex and is a perversion or deviation from normal sex. Also, at the end of the book, it says that everything was laid out, the good and the bad, but it's on the individual to make the decision to engage in certain things or not. It also warns about being lead by sexual passion. One of the fruit of the Spirit is self-control, and that's basically what the end of the book says is the aim of sexual relations and anything in life. The words Kuma Sutra in English means Art of Desire, and my premise is to talk about Christian sexuality. There are 7 purposes for sex that the Bible talks about: Protection (1 Corinthians 7:2), Procreation (Genesis 1:28), Pleasure (Proverbs 5:18&19), Oneness (Genesis 2:24), Intimacy (Genesis 4:1), Generosity (1 Corinthians 6:19&20; 7:5) and last, but not least, Comfort (2 Samuel 12:24). My goal is to discuss the pleasure side of sex and in turn, also tackle the intimacy and oneness sides of sex. I was reading The Complete Kama Sutra translated by Alain Danielou and it was talking about the 3 aims of life, and this is my summary:

Virtue helps you govern prosperity and sexuality. Without virtue, prosperity and sexuality will destroy you. The 3 aims of life are virtue, prosperity and sexuality/love. Virtue allows for parameters to guide the aim of prosperity and love/sexuality. My goal for this book is express sexuality from a Christian perspective, to express sexuality through the virtue of God.

Sex is done physically, but encompasses emotions which deals with the intimacy aspect of sex and it’s also spiritual which deals with the covenant aspect of sex which is why the Bible tells us not to multiply spouses, because a covenant is made with every partner.

Lasciviousness is lesbianism and homosexuality; it’s wantonness; it’s extreme desire; rape, molestation, pedophilia, cross dressing (both men and women), switching sexual roles during intercourse, acting like one’s child. Big daddy should refer to penis not who the man is to you.

People saying that breasts aren't sexual objects because you feed babies with them is like saying the penis and vagina aren't sexual objects because you urinate out of them.

Hebrews 13:4

Marriage should be honorable in all things pertaining to it, even the bed should remain undefiled, free from adultery and sexual immoral acts

KJV (Hebrews 13:4)

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge

NIV (Hebrews 13:4)

Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral

It's not saying everything is permissible, but that the bed should remain undefiled. That's why it mentions whoremongers and adulterers. Whoremongers reference let's us know that we can't get besides ourselves.

Lasciviousness is going beyond normal sexual desires and that's what whoremongers do. They're what culture calls thirsty people and the Old Testament call wanton

if you want a big butts, these exercises will accomplish that 1. Diamond leg lifts 2. Fire hydrants 3. Donkey kicks 4. Leg pulses 5. Bulgarian split squats 6. Step ups 7. Glute bridges 8. Side planks 9. Bent knee side planks 10. Squat with abduction 11. Clamshells

To stop saggy breasts or to lift breasts in women, she should massage with olive oil or aloe vera gel; almond oil. Nutrition: egg yoke and cucumber; swimming

the average time sex lasts is 5.4 minutes

sexual passion for your mate lasts for 2 to 3 years

Height has nothing to do with penis size. It may be based on foot size, but not height. Research shows that penis size has to do with genetics.

Vain women care about size only because they want to be manhandled. An attention whore is that way because previous abuse. It’s hard to keep a 10”+ penis hard because of blood flow. Porn stars use penis pumps, penis injections, penis extensions and penis pills to get bigger. Penis size and butt size are obsessions, what the Bible calls vanity.

An unaroused vagina is 4 inches deep; an aroused vagina is only 3 to 4 inches deeper (7 to 8 inches deep). Large vaginas are the result of childbirth. The average length of a vagina which has never experience childbirth is 2.75 to 3 and 1/4th inches and when a woman is aroused it’s 4.25 inches to 4.75 inches. God is perfect in creation, the reason the average penis length is 5 inches when fully erect is because the woman’s vagina is only 4 inches in length. Only 14% of woman rate their partner’s penis size as small, 84% say they’re satisfied with their partners penis size and 2% of woman wish their partner’s penis size was smaller

best and worst foods to eat before sex

1.      Salad

2.      A protein drink

3.      Not anything heavy because it will prevent you from getting an erection

4.      Not anything spicy because it will upset your stomach and you don’t want stomach problems when trying to have sex

-women should study women hula-dancing to learn how to move when having sex, wrapping her legs around him and moving her hips during sex

-Women should study ballet and cheer-leading techniques to learn flexibility and femininity

-Women, men are visually turned on, so have yourself looking right

The art of seduction deals with relationships, but seducing spirits are things that entice you to sin. There is nothing wrong with seduction. The Bible says that there is no power but God. Demonic power and witchcraft are only that because they are operating outside of the will of God. One Night With The King shows the art of seduction.

5 common signs there's a problem in the bedroom:

1. When you have to always be the one initiates

2. You are willing to put in a lot of work to please her, but she's not willing to put in a lot of work to please you

3. You no longer experiment with new things and things you used to do, she no longer allows

4. When she's no longer doing what she knows you love in the bedroom

5. If you feel unsatisfied with your sex life

4 most causes of bedroom problems:

1. She doesn't love you anymore

2. She lost respect for you

3. She's having an affair

4. You don't know how to do it right in the bedroom

Five Realms of Love:

-Eros: includes passionate as well as sexual or romantic love. This is the passionate love we express between husband and wife.

-Storge: refers to the natural affection between a parent and child. This is best described as when a mother breast feeds her new born baby.

-Phileo: refers to the warm intimacy that we share among good friends.

-Agape: is sacrificial love. It’s a commitment that motivates us to deny ourselves on behalf of another.

-Agapeo: is the fifth and final word for love. It means to carry an affectionate reverence, prompting obedience, causing you to recognize the benefits of knowing this person and refusing to live without or do without this person.

oral sex is not necessary to get her wet or stimulate him; in fact oral and anal sex is what the Bible calls uncleanness and lasciviousness.

People may think that the Song of Solomon promotes oral sex, but it doesn’t. Let me clarify what the scriptures are saying. In The Song of Solomon when it says "As the apple tree amoung the trees of the wood, so is my beloved amoung the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste", it's just saying that his personality stands out. It has nothing to do with oral sex. It's pretty much talking about his game, his flattery towards her. When it says "Let my beloved come into his garden, and eat his pleasant fruit", it's not talking about oral sex there either, it's talking about his penis going into her vagina and him enjoying it because she let her vagina air out, so that they can have the best experience.

If you’re not a virgin, when you’re about to get married, take a milk bath to clean sperm or skin out of your vagina from previous relationships before you two have sex for the first time (this will allow you to enjoy sex without having emotional attachments from previous relationships). Also, milk baths keep the skin looking young, so you’ll like it overall. Milk Baths kills the dead sperm in a woman's vagina that gets left on the walls of her vagina after sex. This leftover sperm is what causes a woman to be on one accord with her husband, but if a woman has had sex with someone that's not her husband and then when she finally gets married, she will have problems with her husband because she still remembers her previous sexual experiences. What Milk Baths do is kills the leftover sperm, so that emotional attachment to previous partners are washed away and she can be fully engaged with her husband. Milk represents the prophetic, it is a prophetic drink. In ancient times people would drink milk in order to hear from their gods or God. Milk helps a person have visions, dreams and able to hear in the spiritual realm. Milk in the New Testament is the Gospel, because the Gospel is prophetic. It's Jesus giving the mind of God, the thoughts and ways of God to humanity. This is why the Bible says that now we don't necessarily need divers signs and we don't have to be in divers places, but we get God's thoughts and ways straight from Jesus. We should read all scripture from the words Jesus spoke. Sex is the highest type of communication two humans can have with each other and talking with God is the highest form of spiritual communication there is, so Milk being a prophetic drink speaks to what Milk does for the woman. It not only kills and washes away dead skin and sperm from her vagina, making her a new creature, just like Christians are new creatures through the washing of the word of God, but just like Jesus is coming back for a Church without spot, wrinkle or blemish; Milk Baths keep a woman's skin looking young.

Bonus: 0.6% of people worldwide have micro-penis and in the U.S. 1.5 out of 10,000 newborns have it.

Bonus: homosexual men don’t have bigger penises then heterosexual men, that’s a myth. When Kensley did that study, the men self-reported, so the results weren’t proven.

Women, remember that power is restraint, not force, just because a man seems tough or manly in the way he acts, that may just show how violent he is and sex is not worth dying over.

How long sex really last and what’s needed to orgasm: 14 minutes for a woman to orgasm, 5 to 6 minutes for men to orgasm, average time of sex is 3 to 7 minutes, women don’t want sex to last more than 15 minutes

Talking to your kids about porn:

Do you know what porn is…what do you know about it…do you have any friends or people at your school who watch porn…what do you think about that